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The Saving Graces (2004)

The Saving Graces (2004)

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0060598328 (ISBN13: 9780060598327)
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harper perennial

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In a year I probably won't remember this book; but while I was reading it, I found it enjoyable and captivating. Although it was a hard read emotionally, it was hard to put down. It's the recollections of four middle-aged friends who form a club out of a deep need for unconditional friendship and female support. They call themselves "The Saving Graces" and meet twice a month for sharing and discussions and much more. The four include:Isabel - is ten years older than the others and becomes the "mother" of the group. She is low-key, wise, and spiritual. The others gravitate to her for advice as she is loving and unselfish. She is getting her life back on track after a divorce, has met a wonderful neighbor named Kirby who she could love, and is taking classes at a university when she experiences reoccurring cancer. Her friends rally around her and take care of her. Lee - is an independently well-off woman who marries a plumber named Henry whom she deeply loves. She is opinionated, organized, humorless, bossy, and frequently right. Her inability to have a baby is making her obsessed and determined to have one which is alienating Henry.Emma - has been searching for years for the right man. She is insecure, jokes a lot, is sarcastic, and is a writer who can't find something to write about. When she finds Mick (the man of her dreams), he is married and has a son. There is mutual attraction, but they vow not to start an affair. This decision leads to a lot of pain and suffering for both of them.Rudy - is very beautiful, neurotic, and comes from a damaged childhood. She has been seeing a therapist named Eric for years. She is kind and empty of malice. She meets and marries Curtis, who is twice as neurotic and is also very manipulative - which makes for a very dysfunctional marriage. Rudy will do anything to keep his love - she's putty in his hands. To keep her under his control, Curtis makes a fatal mistake.These are vivid characters who deal with real life issues. "They are united by understanding, honesty, and acceptance..." The descriptions of their emotions and feelings are realistic and rich. Each chapter is written in first person by one of the characters. The one good thing about not remembering this book in the long run is that I can read and enjoy it again and again!

This is simply the story of four best friends. This is the sort of book I would normally avoid like the plague. I read for escapism, not to experience middle aged women and all their various (real-life) issues. Plus, lately I've been reading exclusively romance and YA, because I figure: Why not just read the books I really WANT to read, instead of reading the books that others think only the "intelligent" people read? I love the guarantee of a happily ever after that romances provide.However, I've heard a lot about Patricia Gaffney lately, and how she is SUCH a great author. So, I decided to go ahead and read this. And, she was a romance author before she began writing general fiction.I am glad I did. It WAS rather sad and depressing in places. But it was still very life-affirming and funny. Touching. The author did an excellent job with balance. I find that a balance between introspection, good character interaction, and dialogue are integral to a well-written novel.Also, I love reading about really good friends. There's nothing like girlfriends, and this sort of book reminds me of that.I can't wait to read more by Patricia Gaffney.

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This was just the thing I needed to read these days. Some sort of sisterhood of the travelling pants with women on their forties.Lee, Isabel, Rudy and Emma have created a group about 10 years ago which they've called "The Saving Graces". They meet usually twice a month, at each others place, and over dinner they catch up on each their lifes, chat and support each other. Initially on their meetings they had topics to discuss, but that was probably when they were't true friends yet.They are all different but complement each other. Lee is the bossy one, the organising spirit; Isabel is always kind and caring for the others; Rudy is the beautiful one but also the more troubled one and Emma is the rebel of the group. What do they have in common? According to them, they've all managed to survive their childhood.Do not expect great literature with this book, but I came across it at the right time and on the right place. It reminded me of some good friends I have! I'll surely be looking for more books from this author since this was the first one I read from her.
—Mady

I have always been a fan of Anne of Green Gables and was particularly taken with her idea of kindred spirits. My hope has always been that I would find one and at times in my life have found myself close including being part of a woman's group that lasted for some years, but moves among other things, health issues and being a caregiver for many years (which tends to isolate one) mean that although I have friends I don't feel that I have a female kindred spirit.This book is about 4 women who became kindred spirits to each other although the depth of the sharing varied between the four. They were,however, there for each other through the highs and the lows. I wish that I was a member of a group like that.I was enthralled by the story which was told from their four viewpoints and quickly got used to who was who and the dynamics of the group. Through their years together they dealt with mental illness, divorce, infidelity,bullying, death and more and throughout they loved each other even when they didn't always agree.I really enjoyed this book and would highly recommend it to others who like books about friendships.
—Bev Walkling

Es geht um vier unterschiedliche Frauen, die sich über zehn Jahre regelmässig treffen, ihre großen und kleinen Probleme besprechen und ihre Geheimnisse teilen. Jede dieser Frauen hat Schwierigkeiten, die sie überwinden muss: Kinderlosigkeit, die Liebe zu einem verheirateten Mann, eine Krebserkrankung und einen überaus dominanter Ehemann. Gemeinsam überwinden sie jedoch alles und jeden und alles wird gut.Die Grundlage der Geschichte ist auch gleichzeitig ihre Schwäche: die Probleme sind so klar abgegrenzt und 'typisch', dass es einfach unglaubwürdig klingt, dass in einer Gruppe von vier Frauen diese Probleme gleichzeitig und vehement auftreten. Und es ist sehr schnell abzusehen, dass am Ende jede Frau das bekommt, was ihr gefehlt hat und dass alle Probleme gelöst werden. Das Schicksal hält keine Überraschungen bereit und man weiß von Anfang an, woran man ist. Zwei Dinge machen das Buch aber doch absolut ideal als Urlaubslektüre oder für ein langes verregnetes Sommerwochenende. Zum einen sind die 'Saving Graces' doch das, was man sich als Frau wünscht: Beste Freundinnen, für jede Lebenslage eine, die einem helfen, kritisieren, und einem bedingungslos zur Seite stehen. In diesem Buch wird dieser Wunsch wahr. Zum anderen ist es der humorvolle Stil der Autorin, der einen fesselt und immer weiterlesen läßt. Wie oft muss man laut loslachen, weil die Kommentare so trocken und charakteristisch sind, dass man sie selber schon gesagt haben könnte. Dabei wird jedes Kapitel wird von einer anderen Frau erzählt. So erhält man Einblick in die verschiedenen Sichtweisen, und die Geschichte wird abwechslungsreich und interessant. Man erkennt sich selbst in diesen Frauen wieder, eben weil sie und ihre Probleme so klassisch sind
—Yang Shu-yuan

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