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Otherwise Engaged (2000)

Otherwise Engaged (2000)

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ISBN
0375706429 (ISBN13: 9780375706424)
Language
English
Publisher
vintage

About book Otherwise Engaged (2000)

This is a low-key but surprisingly witty account of the months leading up to the main character's wedding. Riding the roller coaster of one woman's doubts, fears, and hopes as her wedding approaches was enjoyable. The writing style is intelligent and sometimes understated, which only adds irony and humor to some of the hysterical moments in which the main character finds herself.Quotes like, "They say swans mate for life. I wish they could talk. I have questions.", or "Suddenly, it's not just a sock on the floor, it's a sock on the floor for the rest of my life!" are priceless, delivered in the narrator's quirky but likeable voice.I had thought that the subject of this book would be a bit tiresome, but in reality, I found that there was much more to this story than planning a wedding; It's a story about taking great leaps in life. I laughed, I cried, I wished my boyfriend could understand.

Dust-jacket reviews describe the protagonist's life as "miserable"--if so, it's largely self-induced. She's vapid and self-absorbed, but still likeable, someone to whom I could relate. It does read as autobiographical. (Admittedly, this is how I tend to interpret fiction.)Also, it's funny. Actually, I found it hilarious in parts. I do remember laughing a good deal. From the reviews posted, it looks as if I'm in the minority on that score.And, if you do care, there is a Part 2: the author's divorce memoir. No improbable Jungian psychotherapist, no unlikely gay best friend co-worker. Her fiancee may or may not have a name that begins with "N." Beyond that, it's basically the same story.

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I purchased this book two years ago when I was engaged. I am embarrassed to say that I bought it because of the title. Ya know, when you're engaged and planning a wedding, you become OBSESSED with anything wedding. LOLThis book was an easy read, but it wasn't very interesting and I had a hard time staying focused. It was supposed to be funny, but I didn't find it very funny. I only made myself finish reading it because I kept pushing myself along, hoping the book would get better. I wanted to just quit reading but force myself to finish since I was so closer to teh end than the beginning.I wouldn't recommend this book. Boring.
—Andrea

I went online to read some Amazon reviews, because I actually thought maybe I'd read the wrong book by accident after hearing glowing reviews about Otherwise Engaged. Nope -- apparently I just in the minority. Publisher's Weekly claims that "starting where Bridget Jones's Diary and Animal Husbandry left off, Finnamore's debut novel humorously chronicles one woman's life of limbo, now that she's achieved an engagement ring." I wouldn't so much call it humorous as I would call it depressing and awful.
—Jennifer

1.5 stars, rounded up only because I actually finished it instead of abandoning it the way I wanted to all the way through. A review I read in a magazine described it as funny and witty. There's definitely some snark in it, which is amusing, but none of the main characters were particularly likeable. I wouldn't marry either of them, and I'd put the odds on divorce high. Do people really angst that much during an engagement? I never had a need to beauties just for the sake of marriage, and I would have canceled an engagement with even a fraction of this much drama.
—Aviva

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