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Me And My Shadows: A Family Memoir (1999)

Me and My Shadows: A Family Memoir (1999)

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0671019007 (ISBN13: 9780671019006)
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I never knew that Judy Garland had children besides Liza Minnelli. She had two children with Sid Luft, Lorna and Joe. This is the first book written about Judy Garland by one of her family members, and as such, it is worth reading.Lorna gives a loving but honest telling of her mother's family background, her (Lorna's) own family situation, and then her adult years as a singer and actress in her own right after the death of her mother. A couple of things that were noteworthy for me. First, Lorna says that MGM did not get Judy Garland addicted to "uppers and downers" and then fire her. The president of MGM was also taking the mediations and pills recommended by their staff at that time, and according to Lorna he even paid for several of Judy's hospitalizations himself. MGM treated her well, it was just that Judy was an addict and she found ways to get her pills from various sources. That was new, because I'd always heard that MGM was at fault. Obviously those who introduced Judy Garland to drugs were at fault, but other people did the same thing she did but did not become addicted, so Lorna leaves the blame where it really goes..... her mother was responsible for her addiction.Second, MGM did not really fire Judy Garland. She was having difficulties in filming, she wanted to do other things, and so they let her finish her contract early and even forgave her a $9000 debt. So all in all, MGM seemed to have handled things as well as they could.The tragic parts of this book involve Lorna as a 12 to 15 year old taking care of Judy Garland when she was drugged or manic. After years of having husband / staff / friends cover up for her and take care of her when she couldn't do it herself.... the husband was divorced, the staff could not be paid so they left, and the friends became tired. What was left was Lorna as a young teenager, left to take care of her addicted mother and protect her younger brother at the same time. Truly tragic.

Well... the jury is really out on this book. It's interesting but I have a feeling that I could get much more detail and see fewer instances of important information being brushed by in another book. This is NOT a biography of Judy Garland, it's more a biography of Lorna Luft, her daughter. Skip the book and watch the TV Miniseries. It was awesome. Was going to read: Get Happy: The life of Judy Garland next but I'm kind or tired of the subject for now though I think it's going to be a more satisfying experience. As for this one, I finished the Judy Garland parts of the book, then put it down. Gave it away. Not interested in the rest or a re-read.

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I really enjoyed this book. I've always been a fan of Judy Garland and thought that it would be interesting to read about Judy's daughter. I thought probably she would speak a little about Judy but she devoted the entire first half of her book speaking about Judy's life. I learned so much about Judy which makes me love her even more...however it was also pretty cool to learn about Lorna and her sister, Liza Minelli...Really glad I read this and can't wait to watch some of Judy's old movies she made..
—Lesley Strom

Who doesn't love Judy Garland? This book is written by her daughter who shows us what it was like to have her as a mother. It was a very defensive book explaining why she and her brother weren't living with her mother at the time of her death and also defended her father and his actions. She continually defended his money situation, attitude towards her mother, and the abuse allegations. No one is perfect lest of all someone who starts so early in show business but also at a time when child actors weren't protected.
—Sherri Stephens

This was interesting enough, with a lot of insight into Judy Garland's spiral at the end of her life. I think Lorna did a good job of portraying what she went through without demonizing Garland; she says numerous times that her mother was under the oppression of pill addiction and that the disease was not her fault or something she could control at the end. She also says many times how much she loved her mother and knew that her mother loved her. So it is not in any way comparable to the books written by Joan Crawford or Bette Davis' daughters. I admit my interest waned as we got into Lorna's adult years; I really don't know what to think about how she dealt with Liza's issues. I am sure it is all true, but seeing as how she noted in the book that she and Liza were not on speaking terms at the time of the book's publication, one has to wonder if she could have handled it better. Of course, these days the two seem to have patched everything up and Liza may or may not be doing a lot better, so hopefully everything worked out for the best. I do think Lorna may be in denial about some things, especially about how great her dad was and his role in her mother's financial problems. When reading anything about famous people, you have to take it with a grain of salt. People who write autobiographies have reason to sweep things under the rug or minimize events, and people writing unauthorized biographies have reason to sensationalize or go with stories that they don't have firsthand knowledge of. So you just have to pick and choose what stories or notions you find credible.
—Sarah

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