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Hard Love (2001)

Hard Love (2001)

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068984154X (ISBN13: 9780689841545)
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simon & schuster books for young readers

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Printz Honor 2000This book, for me, shows some of the pitfalls in the way that Printz books appear to be chosen. There are always a couple, usually among the honors books, that seem to be awarded for their edginess and/or inclusion of an Important Topic than for being all-around outstanding literature. Hard Love is well-written, for sure, and it's an engaging read. And I'm sure it was very cutting edge in 2000, but 15 years later, that edge is seriously dulled. What makes this story stand out from the paperback mass market ya romance/after school special is the a)zine storyline, b) lesbian storyline, and c) John's parents. The zine storyline is such a dated little niche in time: people wrote out or typed thoughts/stories/poems and decorated them by hand, then photocopied a stack of them and left them at record stores for people to pick up. I don't know how long this lasted before the internet took off and people wrote blogs instead, but it couldn't have been long -- I was only 20 when these characters were 16 and 17, and it was barely a blip of time in my recollection. Somehow, that seems more dating to the overall novel than the novels that reference pop culture frequently. Maybe because the characters are so sure that *this* is THE fresh and fantastic way to share their thoughts with the world when they can't with their friends and families? And then our main character falls in love with a girl he has always known is a lesbian. So much less shocking and original when shelved among all the books written in the last 15 years than it was when this was originally written. The idea that she was completely unattainable was important to the overall story; her search to figure herself out in a way that was separate from her parents was important to the overall story. Otherwise, this seemed to me more of a gimmick than an authentic piece of the story.John's parents, though, were drawn really well. His father is still pretty unbelievably selfish, but I suppose some people really are like that. I'm not sure how much of this was intentional, but showing the similarities between him and Marisol in their needs to escape to figure out their own way, and the pain left behind, whether it's an escape that is socially acceptable or not, was really interesting and the best part of this novel to me.

I did not finish this book. Which is rare, because I pretty much compulsively finish any book I start. I did try. I made it 150 some-odd pages, but I must say, this one didn't do it for me. On the whole, most YA fiction just doesn't seem to do it for me. There are exceptions, but so much of it seems to exist on the premise that it's target audience, teenagers presumably, are not smart enough for higher-brow prose, are not worthy of better writing, and so what we are left with is a lot of bad writing that owes a cringe-worthy, massive debt to Salinger, and in my experience none of the authors quite touch him in the end. The only thing that seems to distinguish YA from so-called "middle-grade" fiction is lots of swearing and throwaway sexual references. As far as criticism of this book specifically goes, there was a lot of the "woe is me" mentality that is characteristic of the genre. Oh, your father isn't quite himself since his marriage fell apart? That must be so difficult for you, and I'm sure you are the only one who knows what that feels like. Oh, you are a teenager who likes a girl who doesn't like you back? You poor thing, you. And yes, I understand that this line of thought is very accurate and mimetic of how a great many teenagers think (I know I used to be one, hell, still am one sometimes) but that doesn't make it very interesting to read about per se. The "zine" articles and form changes that seem to persist throughout the part of the novel I read feel awfully gimmicky and if there is a pressing narrative purpose for them (I've got five bucks that says there is in fact not), it was sure lost on me. There are a few YA books I have enjoyed, but a great many of them just seem so vapid and fluffy. If there is a positive thing I can say about the genre on the whole, it is that, as a college student, it seems that my peers who are still reading are reading these kinds of books, which is better than reading nothing at all. I know that my parents talked about reading Tolstoy and Barthes and Derida when they were in college, and while it seems very few people my age are up for that kind of challenge anymore, they do like these books, for whatever reason. It may very well be that this genre might become responsible for perpetuating the literary tradition for my generation.

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Hard LovettttttttttttEllen WittlingerttttttttttWalking passed that person- that girl or guy you just can’t stop thinking of-gives you a bag of butterflies fluttering around in your stomach. You find your mind wondering off. How wonderful life wou- then you come back to earth realizing that no matter what he/she will never love you back. This is the slice of a bigger heart in the book Hard Love by Ellen Wittlinger.tIn the book Hard Love by Ellen Wittlinger, a boy named John “Giovanni” meets a girl named Marisol simply for helping him writing zine books. From business purposes the two teens later then develop feelings which for John become strong and intense but for Marisol become confusing and urging her to what she really wants in life and who she really is…trying to find her true identity.tThese mutually and most natural feelings and the tensions are what drive the conflict in the story making it both interesting and before you know it, it brings you into the life of the book making you the teenager in school just watching all of this happening. Hard Love is a book that you won’t be able to put down until it’s done. Drama, love, pain, are definitely crystal clear leaving your eyes wanting more to read without any stop signs. Pick up Hard Love by Ellen Wittlinger, off that shelf, read it and you WON’T regret it!!-Samantha Lai903Dtt
—Samantha

Abandoned by a father who decided the married life wasn’t for him and a depressed mother who has refused to touch him at the age of 10, John’s family situation has caused him to become immune to his own and others emotions. Guarding himself from physical and mental feelings, John, walks around with a presumptuous attitude pretending not to care about anything that happens to him in life. He acts as if he isn’t concerned about spending every weekend in his dad’s empty home and the fact that his mother is about to marry a bald guy. The only emotions he allows in are the ones he receives from reading and writing zines, which is a homemade magazine that allows writers and artist to freely express themselves. It is through reading the zines that John finds Marisol, writer of Escape Velocity, two souls wandering the earth refusing to trust anyone for fear of being hurt again. However, the one time John does decides to let his guard down and share himself with someone it might have been with the wrong person.This Printz Award book, Hard Love, uses the characters of John and Marisol in order to tell a story of love, identity, and truth. The two characters begin their journey with multiple coffee dates, discussions about the different writing styles of one another, Marisol’s identity crisis of being an adopted lesbian, and their dire need for escape. Through each other the two begin to finally trust again. Marisol teaches John to always uphold the truth and John shows her that she is capable of being loved. Ellen Wittlinger tells an incredible and relatable story of two teens either trying to escape themselves or their harsh environments and along the journey they discover a deep connection solving “the initial mystery.”Reviewed by Te’Aria Martin
—Te'Aria Martin

so - more damaged kids attracting each other like magnets, filling in the places left by distant, absent, or overinvolved adults. a strange choice for LGBTQPR3Z week. sure, it is about a friendless boy whose home life is emotionally barren and a firecracker of a lesbian, but it isn't really about sexuality - that part is used more as window dressing than spotlit, and only serves as an obstacle to keep the characters from kissing. she's cool, he's not, and yet they form a relationship based on zines and teen angst until john/gio douches out and the ending happens.i don't really understand what marisol gets out of the relationship - why she keeps coming back. he is clearly not as smart, talented, or interesting as she is, which is why he is forced to lie so frequently. what does some independent lesbian want out of a relationship with an emotionally underdeveloped boy, especially once it becomes clear he has a crush on her and asks her to the prom for goodness' sake?? teen girls do not typically have this kind of patience with starry-eyed stalker losers, especially if even a drunken pity-hookup is so far out of the question. it is such a glaringly one-sided relationship. the only compelling thing about him is his passivity in allowing his parents to treat him so shittily and his lack of interest in being present in his own life. perhaps he is fascinating to marisol the way an overturned beetle is fascinating to a young child: the struggle and the persistence of nature etc. etc.dunno - the real question is "will i ever get caught up on all my silly little book reviews, or will there forever be these sad blank spots effing up my bookpages...?" i am totally in class right now, by the way.NAUGHTY!!
—karen

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