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A Venetian Affair: A True Tale Of Forbidden Love In The 18th Century (2005)

A Venetian Affair: A True Tale of Forbidden Love in the 18th Century (2005)

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3.43 of 5 Votes: 3
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ISBN
0375726179 (ISBN13: 9780375726170)
Language
English
Publisher
vintage

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We have romantic notions about the balls, the masques, the outings, the houses and the art of this period. We don't often consider how little personal freedom the the young nobles attending those balls in the ornate palaces had. Young people could not enjoy their youth. They had to navigate double standards set by society. How did they cope with the emotions and hormones of youth?With power and money at stake, romantic love was considered indulgent and selfish. In Venice, matches needed not only parental approval, but also approval by the oligarchs. Blemishes on the reputation of a parent or grandparent diminished their progeny's value in the marriage market. The probability of a happy marriage was very low. Love, courtly love, was a dream of novels and songs, not for the children of dynasts.The young people that come alive through the letters inherited by the Di Robilant family know they are fated. Unlike Romeo and Juliet, they accept their fate. They carry on and maintain a friendship through letters.I felt very sorry for Guistiniana, who had NO social or emotional support for her feelings. In contrast Andrea had the love of his parents and the admiration of a society that allowed him to flirt and enjoy dalliances that were hurtful to Guistiniana. He seemed very cold at times for not acknowledging her risks. Mrs. Anna, never acknowledges her role in hindering her daughter's future.While this book could have been much shorter, it was worthwhile. It paints a portrait of how the time's social mores played out in the lives of two teens as they become twentysomethings... and how they made a life for themselves.I came to this after reading Lucia: A Venetian Life in the Age of Napoleon by the same author which describes the life and times of the next generation of the Memmo family. While "Affair" is good and I recommend it, I even more highly recommend "Lucia" for people who are interested in this period.

This review from Amzaon is pretty accurate although I kept waiting for more to happen in terms of 'plot' between the two lovers. For that reason, I only gave it 3 stars. "It's hard to imagine a more romantic real-life story than the long, forbidden love affair of the 18th-century Venetian nobleman Andrea Memmo and a half-English beauty named Giustiniana Wynne. Andrea Di Robilant's A Venetian Affair is drawn in part from a cache of letters discovered by the author's father in his ancestral palazzo on the Grand Canal. In 1753, his ancestor Andrea Memmo had been introduced to a lovely girl of uncertain station (illegitimate, although her parents later married). The Wynnes's position was precarious enough in Venice's rigid society, and Giustiniana's mother took every step to prevent the young aristocrat from corrupting her daughter. But the two lovers began to meet in secret: exchanging letters through confederates and communicating in public through an elaborate code of nods and gestures. They even came within a few days of being married before further dark revelations about Giustiniana's family put a permanent end to their hopes. Although Memmo went on to have an illustrious career in the dying Venetian Republic, it is Giustiniana's astonishing later life that really captures the reader. A Venetian Affair provides both a rich picture of the times--including cameo appearances by that scamp, Casanova--and a convincing account of an enduring passion. --Regina Marler

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I was bored to tears by this one. It’s the nonfiction account of a love affair that took place in the 18th century in Venice. The author wrote the book after his father found a collection of letters between their ancestor, a Venetian nobleman, and a young woman. It started out strong and quickly pulled me in, but soon the story was bogged down with a nonstop back and forth. The melodrama between the lovers, the restraints of their society and their different social classes made the whole thing impossible. I felt like the book could have been much shorter, but the author wanted to include every scrap of correspondence he had between the two. BOTTOM LINE: The story is interesting because it’s nonfiction, but it should have been much shorter. What should be a fast-paced love story quickly became a tedious tug-of-war.
—Melissa

Mr. Di Robilant’s father was extremely taken with the nobility that lay in his family line and in the love affair that enraptured one particular Venetian nobleman. In a world engaged in war, Andrea Memmo has his career to make and Giustiniana Wynne needs to find a husband. Because of her background, he is not free to marry her but that doesn’t prevent them from a love affair that would last the rest of their lives. Even separated from him, she could not keep from exchanging letters and those letters make for a breathtaking story of love and loss. This is no historical-fiction romance but an epistolary tale, carefully built around exchanged letters, that wittily details the love of Venice and the passion of a Venetian noble for an English girl of dubious ancestry. This novel draws you in from beginning to end as Giustiniana matures from a fresh-faced, lively girl to a woman of maturity, who must come to terms with her devious lover and a shifting political and social climate. Mr. Di Robilant traces the history of their doomed love affair and the magnificent city that inspired it. In doing so, he brings La Serenessima and many other cities to life, as well as the turbulent, changing times and societies that attended the 18th century.
—Marsha

I think Venice is the most romantic city in the world. So, when I heard this book documented a true, Romeo-and-Juliet-style affair that took place in Venice in the mid-1700's, I knew I had to read it. In some ways, the tale of how the author discovered the story was just as interesting as the tale of the young lovers. After his father found and translated moldy old love letters in the attic of the family palazzo in Venice, the author pulled them together into a full picture of life there at a time of great change, the final years of the Venetian Republic. The narrative dragged in the beginning, when the multiple letters of the young lovers get repetitive and mostly involve complicated plans to be sure to look at one another across the crowded casino without the girl's mother noticing. There are definite echoes of Pride and Prejudice here, as the mother of the young lady is clearly focused on finding the most advantageous marriage possible for her first-born daugher. For modern women, this part of the story is depressing and one aches to think that for centuries this was the highest pinnacle to which women could aspire. The young man is from one of the most important families in Venice, and becomes a successful politician. The book's canvas expands to include Paris and London, and the author does a good job of weaving in just enough historical facts to keep the narrative grounded but is smart enough to keep the focus on his main characters, and the city in which they spent their formative years.
—Julie

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